[Rin should realize that she doesn't care so much about how others address her. She's used to everyone picking the way that is most comfortable for them, but the propriety of her behaviour has been drilled into her head since birth.]

Yes, my older cousin has been here for a while and has just celebrated his birthday. His team mate and I were in charge of the party. Another friend from home helped me cook the food. I was...[A pause.]...hoping that you might find your way over there. But perhaps it is best that you did not.